Life to most of us means going to college, or work place, hangouts, fights, exams, chatting, surfing, projects, movies, eating, sleeping, other any regular day-to-day life activities and few exceptional bad experiences and what not.. But life for few people is more than what we encounter in our daily life… In my life one of such kind of person is “Ramya”... Her life is much more and more than what I/We have seen in our lives… After hearing her life history I must admit that I have got a new inspiration for my life and that ma spirit of living is raised to 200%.... We might have heard from some one or read somewhere about so many inspirational people but when the same person is living next door it certainly makes a difference... “Ramya” has shown me that difference...
Here is chat with the inspirational person in ma life...
"I don’t like worrying or being sad... I hate worries... This characteristic of mine came from my birth... I never changed it at any stage of my life... This is the introduction Ramya gave to me, who like being happy and making others happy is the motto of her life...
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She continued...
"At the relative house, to make a cup of coffee I went and switched on the old fashioned kerosene stove... With no prior experience in doing it I think I triggered the anger of stove, which all of a sudden bursted and the fire started spreading on me. All the relatives came immediately and put off the fire and when they took me to hospital, there wasn't single inch of skin left, and all were burnt in fire... "
They took Ramya to near by GH. While carrying her, there were whispers saying its waste of taking her to GH itself, and it will be good if the soul is separated with out any more pain..."Will I leave the earth soo soon" were her words then... She was put in bed for 46 days. Her pulse started to go down. 47th day the doctor who tested her told that every thing is finished and they can take her 'body' for post mordem.
"My post mordem batch number is 13...Who will get the chance of telling this... “She said with smile but seeing her narration of having touched the death bed and sharing this painful incident made me feel amazing about her....
There was an experienced Plastic Surgeon at the hospital who took an extra care on Ramya and wanted her to come out of death bed… But when he heard that she was taken to post mortem he couldn’t believe it and immediately he went in search of her. When he examined, he found that there was still beat in her ankle joint... "Thank god they had not performed the post mordem yet" she sighed...He then took her to the ward and exactly three days from then she regained her consciousness…
Even after getting out of the death bed, life hasn't been so easy to her... "Since I was put in bed for so many days my body got into so many infections... The time it took for cleaning all that... Apppaa... Even if I think of it now its makes me damn stuck... Even though I took medicine for suppressing the pain, it would be as if those medicines failed to work on my body.... The damaged skin would be replaced by the skin from other part of the body and have to wait for both injuries to get cured and again perform next operation. Like this uncountable operations have taken place...
On the whole two-an-a-half years of my life were spent in hospital itself...By then many incidents had taken place in the outside world... My grandma and father have taken tickets to heaven... But to everyone's surprised I have come out of the death and started to breathe...." she exclaimed and her decision after that is most important...
When the discharge date was announced her brother came forward and arranged for taking her to his home. But Ramya decided to come to Chennai for searching job. Doctors had told her that you can’t go to city and search for job an all. But she dint listen to all that...Her thoughts were, if she decides to live with her brother it would be fine for few days, she can get on well but what is her future? Will it be good to have her entire life spent with at her brother's place...She was not interested in marriage and was reluctant to have a life of a normal girl, it was due to her loneliness which she had experienced in her childhood and started to love begin alone... She also have to do costliest plastic surgeries to make herself fine, to whom is she going to depend for all the money??... This made her to decision of landing in Chennai pretty stronger!!
"That time I was only 36kgs... I can neither resist cold nor the hot summer. My body condition was so week, with this I searched for job... I neglected those people who rejected me by seeing my face. I believed that only the companies which give preference to the talent can be good one... I started for searching a company like tat. The computer course which I had done helped me in getting a software programmer job. I took a working women's hostel and started earning my money... I would earn, save it and do the next level of operation. Till now my life is going like this...” Ramya finished telling her life history to me, who owns a blogspot which says Willtolive written in Tamil... After hearing her life my eyes were filled with tears, with few drops already flowing down my cheeks.....
But now she is not anymore a hostelite... She is living with her sister, Gayathri... To say about Gayathri... She is Quite by Nature which is parallel to the naughty character of Ramya. Probably this difference made a strong bond between both of them… Ramya has pursued both MCA & MBA degrees and now she is working as Project manager in a private concern where Gayathri is in the marketing division...
The magnitude of Ramya’s life resides in her ambition. She is one of greatest disciple of Mother Theresa and wanted to serve the people by starting an orphanage and fulfill her life by shouldering her responsibility towards the needy people. Ramya’s saying goes like “My amount is little but my support is Sincere”.
Gayathri also has the same aspiration of caring for people, which made her not to think on the relationship of marriage… This also holds good in making Ramya and Gayathri’s life to travel in the same boat….